Showing posts with label Advice for newbies. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Advice for newbies. Show all posts

Saturday, 23 December 2017

Chinese belt VS My-Steel belt

I own 2 chastity belts: a Chinese and a My-Steel Total belt. This article is meant to compare them.

Comfort: My-Steel wins

I start with the most important according to me: how easy it is to wear the belt.
The My-Steel belt had been made to measure.for my body, and due to my thin waist, the Chinese belt shape is not very good for me. Many people can witness: custom belts are much better than adjustable ones.
I really love the double-shield from My-Steel: not excessively tight, but very safe. The silicon is glued on the My-Steel belt: risks to have silicon coming off is very little (my belt is not a good example since it is damaged, but I rarely complain about the glue now). The thin (0.5 mm), sharp steel of Chinese belts can be very dangerous.
The anal hole is bigger on My-Steel belts, which make toilets visits a bit easier.
And: how many times I got labia pinching on my Chinese belt! it is very unpleasant. There is an easy way to avoid labia pinching on Chinese belts (glue silicon gutters on the sides of the 2ndary shield). Labia pinching is very uncommon on My-Steel.

Adjustability: Chinese wins

My-Steel belts are adjustable on few centimeters only, whereas Chinese belts are adjustable on tens of cm. I advise them for beginners thanks to their adjustability. Big weight gains/losses can prevent you from wearing a My-Steel belt. It is my main motivation to keep fit and not lose too much weight.

Locks: draw

They look similar. My-Steel locks are very safe, very hard to destroy. However, My-Steel uses specific padlocks, which are expensive to buy if you want to replace them. Chinese belts accept small padlocks, you needn't specific locks.

Strength: My-Steel wins

I am strong. I broke the rear part of the Chinese belt (don't ask me how), and I had to get a replacement piece. My-Steel uses 1-mm-thick steel. I have never broken any steel of my belt.
Both belts use stainless steel. However, there is little rust on my Chinese belt (especially between the belt and the silicon, where the water can stay and attack the steel, and around the rings). No rust for My-Steel.

Weight: draw

My My-Steel belt is a bit heavier than the Chinese one. But they are both less than 1 kg (2 lb) each. They are too light to be felt.

Price: Chinese wins

Well, this is one of the most important problems: how much these belts cost. A My-Steel belt costs about 700 EUR (the real price depends on the options you choose), whereas you can find Chinese belts for less than 200 EUR.


I don't detail about plugs. I could, but plugs would deserve an other article.

I don't wear my Chinese belt anymore, except for double-plugged desires. My My-Steel belt is my usual belt. It is almost worn out (due to intensive wearing), but I definitely recommend this brand!

Saturday, 20 May 2017

Advice for girls who want to enter in chastity

Chastity beginners often ask me advice. Here are 5 advice I can give to them.
I will not talk about sexual frustration, jsut about hygiene, skin care and getting used to.

1st advice: get used to your belt.

Don't start by doing 30 continuous days in a chastity belt. This is just impossible (or almost) for the body and the mind to be belted for so long without any training. Feel free to unlock the belt when needed.
You may not feel in ease to pee or shower the 1st days: take the time you need before jumping belted in the shower, or to pee through the belt.

2nd advice: use an adjustable belt.

A Chinese belt is great since you can adjust its measurement to your body. Besides, they are cheap (there is nothing worse than spending 1 000 $ in a chastity belt which doesn't fit on you).
Don't wear your belt too tight: you can develop blisters, bruises or wounds.
Don't either wear your belt too loose: it will chafe and damage your skin.

3rd advice: clean yourself when needed.

A chastity belt needs a strict hygiene. Feel free to unlock the belt when you need to be cleaned.
Personally, when I have done my 31 days, I used a basin of soapy water to be kept clean. But after 31 days, the belt smelled the death.

4th advice: oil, a lot of oil.

I use a lot of vegetal oil between my skin and my belt to avoid damaging my skin (at least daily). I advise beginners to keep their belt oily to prevent bruises, chafes and other problems.

5th adivce: find your own way to cope with chastity.

Sounds ridiculous, but maybe you will not like the basin or oil, and you find better devices which fit you better. Try several kinds of oils/creams until you find the best for you.


Have fun, and feel free to drop comments if you have extra questions!